ok--question for the ethics squad--
Have 2 firefighters, one who I live next door to, one a female rookie, having an affair.
The one I live next door to has a wife and 3 kids. The female rookie just finished up a relationship with our chief (though this was on the up and up since they we're both single adults).
Here's the problem, the 2 involved firefighters are not hiding the fact that they are carrying on like a pair of teenagers, the rest of us are kind of p-o'ed that they are doing this stuff in the public eye, morale is kind of dipping and of course, I live next door to the unaware wife and kids.
My wife is getting increasingly nervous about this-she and I don't want to get involved while at the same time, we don't want to appear as accomplices to the crime by going along with the crime(actually, many of my firefighters feel the same way at the firehouse).
Also, I am an officer in this department and I do have a duty to maintain the morale and discipline of "the troops".
Does anyone out there have some advice--
I know it sounds like "As the Firehouse Turns" but it's becoming a problem.
Have 2 firefighters, one who I live next door to, one a female rookie, having an affair.
The one I live next door to has a wife and 3 kids. The female rookie just finished up a relationship with our chief (though this was on the up and up since they we're both single adults).
Here's the problem, the 2 involved firefighters are not hiding the fact that they are carrying on like a pair of teenagers, the rest of us are kind of p-o'ed that they are doing this stuff in the public eye, morale is kind of dipping and of course, I live next door to the unaware wife and kids.
My wife is getting increasingly nervous about this-she and I don't want to get involved while at the same time, we don't want to appear as accomplices to the crime by going along with the crime(actually, many of my firefighters feel the same way at the firehouse).
Also, I am an officer in this department and I do have a duty to maintain the morale and discipline of "the troops".
Does anyone out there have some advice--
I know it sounds like "As the Firehouse Turns" but it's becoming a problem.
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